ARE YOU TRANS & looking for fun and support?
Diablo Valley Girls
The East Bay Area’s Premier Adult TransgenderWoman Social Group
If you can make it to the Bay Area, the Diablo Valley Girls (DVG) might be a good fit! We are a social and support group serving the crossdressing and transgender community in Northern California. We have attendees from all over the East Bay, and neighboring cities.
Members Only Portal
Here is your place to share photos and connect with Diablo Valley Girls Transgender Community. Currently the portal is being refreshed and will soon allow for new members. Please contact diablovalleygirls@gmail.com for information about the events listed below.
“I have been attending DVG meetings since 2000 and have made some very dear, life-long friends. When I went to my first meeting, I was nervous and did not know what to expect. The ladies made me feel very welcome and I was put at ease. That was almost 25 years ago and being with these great friends has been such a blessing! My spouse has also found support!” – Kathy, East Bay
Founded by Donna Freeman and “Just” Janet the DVG community has participated in local transgender focused events for more than 30 years. The Diablo Valley Girls is a confidential “members only” group open to anyone who identifies as transgender and would like fellowship and support. DVG is a social, non-sexual, non-political, and confidential group created for support and fostering community. We have meetings throughout the year at homes, restaurants, and venues.
We range in age from our twenties through our eighties and come from a variety of backgrounds and professions. We may be married or single, and may describe ourselves as gay, straight, or bisexual. What we have in common is a desire to celebrate who we are and to support each other. Our group is open to anyone who identifies as transgender, including crossdressers, trans women, and those who are questioning or exploring their gender identity. We invite partners, family members, friends, and allies to join us. Our spirit of inclusiveness creates a welcoming space where all of our members can enjoy themselves, and be themselves.
UPCOMING EVENTS IN JUNE, JULY AND AUGUST 2026
May 30, Saturday – GEMS Spring Fling – Get ready for a sensational Spring Fling party! Gems sister Leann has graciously offered to host the annual Spring Fling at her lovely home in Roseville. This year’s theme is Hawaiian Lua. We will provide delicious food and drinks and play a few games as well So grab that spring dress or Hawaiian skirt and come to the islands with us. LINK
June 1, Monday – Club 1220 DVG Monday Night Social – Starts at 7 PM – DVG meets the first Monday of the month at the 1220 Club in Walnut Creek. This club is a great way to relax. It is VERY accepting of all and welcomes the DVG girls with open arms. See the calendar page in the member’s portal. Pot-Luck Format. LINK TO CALENDAR
June 6, Saturday – CONCORD PRIDE ON THE PLAZA: Celebrate with the Concord Rainbow Center and your LGBTQ Community! Todos Santos Plaza, downtown Concord, 12:00 Pm till 4:00 PM. LINK TO EVENT WEBSITE
June 9, Tuesday 1:00PM – 3:00 PM DVG Coffee Talk: Join your DVG friends at the Concord Rainbow Community Center. This is a come-as-you-are event open to anyone who identifies on the Transgender Spectrum. A relaxed place to ask questions, find out about DVG or just sit and visit. Hope you can make it! Rainbow Community Center, 2380 Salvio Street, Suite 301, Concord, CA. LINK TO RCC WEBSITE LINK TO CALENDAR
June 13-14 – SACRAMENTO PRIDE – The River City Gems are hosting a booth at the Sacramento Pride Festival. We are looking for GEMS to help staff the booth. If you like to engage with people this is a great volunteer opportunity for you. Note, you can volunteer for as many hours as you like. LINK
June 15, Monday – DVG Monday Night Social – Starts at 7 PM till closing about 9:30. Held at the Pie Shop in Walnut Creek. This is a really nice restaurant with good food and a bar available. There is also an “after-party” as well at the 1220 Club for those who want to keep the party going. LINK TO CALENDAR
June 19, Friday – GEMS Fem Friday – Starts at 6:30 – 10:00 PM – Come join your sisters for a fabulous Femme Friday! This restaurant/bar in Sacramento is welcoming, friendly, and has ample parking. So, start thinking of what outfit you will be wearing and we’ll see you there! No RSVP is required, just show up. For location, visit the River City Gems community at LINK
June 20, Saturday – DVG Summer Party – Starts at 5:30 – Let’s kick off summer and celebrate our vibrant Nor Cal transgender community. There will be food provided (some potluck as well), Karaoke and a great time to catch up with good friends as we celebrate Pride Month! Located at Kathy and Jeni’s home in Martinez. Email her at litc.kathy@gmail.com to RSVP. Link for more information
June 26, Friday – GEMS Drab Gab Lunch. Drab Gabs are a group that meets for lunch, support, friendship, and discussion. Attendees are asked to come in DRAB (male attire only). Drab Gabs are open to anyone who is interested, and are especially intended for those who are new or may not be ready or able to attend events dressed en femme. DRAB Gab organizers, will send you the actual address and location and answer any questions you may have. LINK
June 26, Friday – SF Trans March: Dolores Park in San Francisco. DVG and the GEMS will march together. The SF Trans March stands as the city’s premier Transgender Pride gathering, and is one of the largest trans pride events in the world. This event draws in a multitude of participants, both trans people and their allies. Christy and Kathy will be at Deloris Park near the tennis courts at 5PM. Tennis Courts are at 18th Street and Delores. Look for the GEMS/DVG Banner. Parade will start about 6PM. Let us know you are joining us. SIGN UP ON THE GEMS WEBSITE: SIGN UP LINK.
June 28, Sunday – The San Francisco Pride Parade – This is one of the largest LGBTQ+ celebrations in the world, bringing together diverse communities to march and celebrate. Every year, hundreds of contingents including community organizations, businesses, and performance groups come together on Market Street to celebrate Pride. Start: 10:30 AM at Beale Street & Market Street. LINK
July 6, Monday – Club 1220 DVG Monday Night Social – Starts at 7 PM – DVG meets the first Monday of the month at the 1220 Club in Walnut Creek. This club is a great way to relax. It is VERY accepting of all and welcomes the DVG girls with open arms. See the calendar page in the member’s portal. Pot-Luck Format. LINK TO CALENDAR
July 14, Tuesday – DVG Coffee Talk @ 1:00PM – 3:00 PM – The Concord Community Center has provided a very safe place for those who wish to connect with other adults in the transgender community. This is a come-as-you-are event open to anyone who identifies on the Transgender Spectrum. A relaxed place to ask questions, find out about DVG or just sit and visit. Hope you can make it! Rainbow Community Center, 2380 Salvio Street, Suite 301, Concord, CA. LINK TO RCC WEBSITE. LINK TO CALENDAR
July 17, Friday – GEMS Fem Friday – Starts at 6:30 – 10:00 PM – Come join your sisters for a fabulous Femme Friday! This restaurant/bar in Sacramento is welcoming, friendly, and has ample parking. So, start thinking of what outfit you will be wearing and we’ll see you there! No RSVP is required, just show up. For location, visit the River City Gems community at LINK
July 20, Monday – DVG Monday Night Social – Starts at 7 PM till closing about 9:30. This is a really nice restaurant with good food and a bar available. There is also an “after-party” as well at the 1220 Club for those who want to keep the party going. LINK TO CALENDAR
July 24, Friday – GEMS Drab Gab Lunch. Drab Gabs are a group that meets for lunch, support, friendship, and discussion. Attendees are asked to come in DRAB (male attire only). Drab Gabs are open to anyone who is interested, and are especially intended for those who are new or may not be ready or able to attend events dressed en femme. DRAB Gab organizers, will send you the actual address and location and answer any questions you may have. LINK
August 3, Monday – Club 1220 DVG Monday Night Social – Starts at 7 PM – DVG meets the first Monday of the month at the 1220 Club in Walnut Creek. This club is a great way to relax. It is VERY accepting of all and welcomes the DVG girls with open arms. See the calendar page in the member’s portal. Pot-Luck Format. LINK TO CALENDAR
August 11, Tuesday – DVG Coffee Talk @ 1:00PM – 3:00 PM – The Concord Community Center has provided a very safe place for those who wish to connect with other adults in the transgender community. This is a come-as-you-are event open to anyone who identifies on the Transgender Spectrum. A relaxed place to ask questions, find out about DVG or just sit and visit. Hope you can make it! Rainbow Community Center, 2380 Salvio Street, Suite 301, Concord, CA. LINK TO RCC WEBSITE LINK TO CALENDAR
August 17, Monday – DVG Monday Night Social – Starts at 7 PM till closing about 9:30. This is a really nice restaurant with good food and a bar available. There is also an “after-party” as well at the 1220 Club for those who want to keep the party going. LINK TO CALENDAR
August 21, Friday – GEMS Fem Friday – Starts at 6:30 – 10:00 PM – Come join your sisters for a fabulous Femme Friday! This restaurant/bar in Sacramento is welcoming, friendly, and has ample parking. So, start thinking of what outfit you will be wearing and we’ll see you there! No RSVP is required, just show up. For location, visit the River City Gems community at LINK
August 28, Friday – GEMS Drab Gab Lunch. Drab Gabs are a group that meets for lunch, support, friendship, and discussion. Attendees are asked to come in DRAB (male attire only). Drab Gabs are open to anyone who is interested, and are especially intended for those who are new or may not be ready or able to attend events dressed en femme. DRAB Gab organizers, will send you the actual address and location and answer any questions you may have. LINK
About Diablo Valley Girls
Diablo Valley Girls’ (DVG) primary focus is to connect people who share interests and hobbies, without the intention of a romantic or sexual relationship. This site is monitored for content.
DVG was formed to improve the lives of transgender individuals and their families by providing social opportunities, peer support, education, resources, outreach programs, and other services focused on the specific needs of the male-to-female transgender community.
MISSION: Our primary goal is to create opportunities for transgender women to get together and socialize in a personally affirming, safe, and supportive environment. We also strive to raise awareness and understanding of the transgender community through our online presence and our positive interactions with the public at our events. We’re all about changing lives and changing perceptions.
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